I am guilty of using the word 'Naughty" one too many times when in fact,Ranielle is only a curious and energetic Child.Yes,she is mischevious always testing boundaries but i realize that's the way she realizes cause and effect.when she doesn't want to leave a place,she merely wants to play a while longer or just to look around longer.Give her a few more minutes and she will leave on her own accord,no shouting,scolding needed.She will just simply follow you.All she need is time.She is not naughty but curious.I once spoke to a mother whose son and Ranielle has the same character.She told me,in the conventional way,people will say that they are naughty because they are active but in an unconventional way,they are really great kids.
My daughter knows her Ps and Qs,very loving and affectinate and knows how to behave more than i give her credit for.Yes,there are toy snatching when playing with other kids,but it's not always her and these things do happen.But What i realize is She's perfect and i'm the one with the flaw.
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